In an article from last week, CCAI’s shared in part the discussion that took place at our 112th New Congress Forum where Members of Congress addressed their legislative agendas for this year. It was a vigorous and insightful hour-long discussion. Perhaps the most captivating out of all of the speakers at the round table were the individuals who had direct experience with the foster care system or domestic and intercountry adoption.
Alixes Rosado bravely began with his story explaining while life on the streets was tough he felt the streets were safer and more loving than some of his foster homes. After hearing this, Sen. Mary Landrieu expressed her interest in working to improve the foster parent recruitment processes across the nation to promote quality homes and better support foster parents.
Christina Miranda, also a former foster youth, changed schools 6 times between the age 11 and 18, and discussed the difficulties this school instability posed to her educational success. Rep. Michele Bachmann highlighted a piece of legislation she introduced last Congress and plans to continuing working on, “School Choice for Foster Kids Act which would allow foster parents to send any foster child to his or her original school.” To this, Sen. Landrieu said she would introduce a companion bill in the Senate to encourage the passage of this law.
Samuel and Mildred Stewart adopted 3 children from foster care. They stressed the need for mental health services to be provided to adopted children, as they have and continue to struggle to find services for their son. She suggested how helpful it would be for families if parents had services, such as support groups or respite care.
International adoptive parent, Jeromy Smith, told his moving story of adopting his daughter and son from Kenya. “Orphans struggle not only with physical poverty, but with relational poverty. Every night millions of kids—both those with empty stomachs and full stomachs—go to bed wondering if anyone, anywhere will ever love them. Their souls ask the question, ‘Do I even matter?” Read his full remarks here.
Nicole Dobbins, Executive Director of Voice for Adoption and former foster youth, stated, “I sometimes have to pinch myself when I say ‘executive director’ because it is hard for me to believe sometimes, when I think about where I have come from. I am delighted to share in the context of both my professional and personal capacity, if it will help push the agenda on foster care and adoption policy, because waiting children truly deserve to be at the forefront of every discussion.” Read her full remarks here.
Executive Director of C.A.S.E., Debbie Riley shared that from her experience as both an adoptive mother and adoption professional, “according to adoptive parents, one of the greatest post-adoption support needs is mental health services provided by someone who knows adoption.”
These speakers brought most of the room to tears with their personal stories and helped Members realize that the 112th Congress has some work ahead of them to improve foster care and adoption. Members shared their commitment to use their position to bring about change for these children and families.
Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute 
This is all good! There is just so much that must be achieved while building up a new platform for the lives of these children. I have recently adopted two little brothers who lived in various foster care homes for 4 1/2 years within the State. These homes need much more evaluations done throughout the fostering licence allotted time. The foster system is a culture within a culture that should not be allowed to make such serious errors while being paid by the State who has given these people the trust in the development of our most precious gifts, the children. The boys I have went to the store to buy blunts for their foster mother. Were woke up at 3 am in the morning when their foster mother returned from, as she put it “working for them” and had to give her legs and back rub downs. And while she was working her 11 year old son ….well let’s just let it be in the past as my boys are in private therapy pouring their hearts out. Neither of the two knew how to use a fork or knife….neither could wipe their little coolie…at 8 and 10 years old. They could not write or read and after putting them into a private learning center we found out that their grade levels were actually kindergarten and 1st and a little 2nd grade levels…..
There is so much to be addressed, just so much………thank you for trying so very hard to correct such a nightmare that apparently those who have also grown up through finally got to bring light on…..yours sincerely